中西婚姻价值观不同分析
发布时间：2023-12-31 20:51:51
Different value towards marrige between Chinese and westerner
Because of different cultural background , Chinese and westerner have a lot diference in marriage value..the differences involed mate choice,marriage life ,marriage condition and the couple’s life style after marriage. In a world,the marriage between Chinese and westerner is mostly inconsistent . With the social economic development, chinese social system has totally changed . taking mate choice for example, Chinese girls used to choose good moral character boys,love of labor boys and intelligent boys as their boyfriend.however ,now,these points are not worth mentioning. Nowadays Chinese girls think highly of boys’ appearance ,family background,occupational status.there are many representative nouns such as”tuhao,diaosi,gaofushuai and so on. Tuhao means those peole who have a lot of wealth but they don not have a high education,”gaofushuai” means those people who have a handsome appearance and a lot of wealth,in china , girls tend to choose “gaofushuai” or “tuhao” as their boyfriends. Diaosi means those people who have a bad appearance and low external conditions If you are a diaosi in china ,you have little chance to get a beautiful girlfriend.comparing with westerner, things are different, most western girls pay attention to boys’ personal taste and connotation , they do not pay much attention to boys’ external conditions. In my own opionion, Chinese girls should learn from western girls. On the other hand ,marriage condition is also different between two cultures. In china , the marriage conditions are pretty high for man, as a man ,you
should better have house car steady job and enough money before getting married , the reason for such requirements are strange too. Girls say these can make them feel safe. What’s more, getting married is a long process in china , there is a old saying in china, if you want to marry the girl ,you have to pass your mother in law first. And the couple should prepare a lot for their marriage .while in western countries , the girls’ requirements are much low, most of them can marry a man anytime and anywhere as long as they love him.westen girls don not get much infiunce from their parents as Chinese girls do
Thirdly speaking，the couples’ marriage life is also not the same.for Chinese couples, Chinese husbands tend to work mainly outside and support the whole family.while Chinese wives’ work is to stay at home and take care of the children.we may easily figure out that Chinese husbands have more stress and responsibility than Chinese wives.what is more,in china,many girls promise to get married on condition that they can control the whole family finance rights.in my eyes, these requirements are totally radiculars.when you come to western countries, you’ll find surprisely that the couples undertaken the social responsibility together,and most of the western girls still have the job after marriage.comparing with westerner, Chinese divorce rate is lower. Finally speaking,it is about the couples’s lifestyle after marriage .chinese couples
